Waterfall Angels on Facebook

Our rainbow Samuel Thomas Goldthorpe

Lilypie First Birthday tickers

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

September Secret Garden Meeting

“This month we feel that we need to focus on the positive things that have helped us in this journey so far. We know that for some of you it is still very early days and that you may not be able to see any light right now, so that is why we are sharing about things that have helped us the most in the hope that you may see something that has helped someone else that could possibly benefit you”.

There are three things/people that have helped me through this painful and tough journey.

The number one person that has helped me in this new life is my Jonathan. Without him I don’t think I would have ever survived this nightmare. He dragged me back into life kicking and screaming, and he never gave up. He may have gotten upset with me on one or two occasions and I’m glad he did.

Number two would be my blog along with the wonderful women that follow it and the women that I follow. It is bittersweet to find people that understand the pain i'm going through.

Number three is the fertilityfriend website. I joined the site just so that I could do my ovulation charting on-line and not by hand anymore, but when I ventured over to the community I found some wonderful women to talk to and still continue to find wonderful women to talk to even after 2 years.


  1. Having support both online and real life by people who care helps so much.

  2. It is wonderful that Jonathan has helped you. My hubby has been a lifesaver since Jenna passed. He has gotten on to me too, but it helped me. He stabilizes me, if that makes any sense? I am so glad you have found a support group, it does a world of good to know there are others that know the pain.


  3. It is so important to have a good support system. I am glad that you have that in your real life, as well as in the online community. Thank you so much for sharing.

  4. I've definitely found the online community to be an incredibly positive force in my life since my daughter died.

    I'm so sorry to read about Jasper and your other 3 lost babies.

    With love, Jess